5 tips on how to flirt with women
Most men DON'T know how to flirt with women, it's just that simple. They think stopping and talking with someone is flirting, and it's really more than that.
Flirting requires a deeper level of communication than just talking. While you're talking, you need to demonstrate your physical attraction and your sexuality. If you can also display a personality that is attractive, you'll be well on your way to the creation of a rapport with women. THAT's when the flirting begins.
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Tip 1: Understand what flirting is, and what it is NOT. When you flirt, you should be creating sexual tension between yourself and the woman you're talking to. If you feel that you will get along well with a woman you are meeting, joke around with her, and then create a bit of positive sexual tension between you and her.
Tip 2: Be funny and good-natured. Using a funny or cocky approach can work to create sexual tension, Don't be overly cocky or aloof - just cultivate for yourself a personality of a high status, which will make women work harder at attracting your attention.
You need to be relaxed and tease or joke with the woman, but don't come off as arrogant or acting like the old class clown. That's NOT what it's about. Balance your sense of humor with a confident display of personality.
Tip 3: Pull sexual tension into your conversation. When you flirt, you would like the woman to think about you in a way that is sexual and sensual in nature. You will want to bring the subject of sex into the conversation, to feed this second nature.
DON'T go in and start coming onto her like you want to have sex NOW. You need to use subtlety to turn the conversation in that direction, not hit her over the head with the idea. Just mention some stories about your friends and unusual sexual encounters, something like that. The stories can be humorous, but also sexual in nature.
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Tip 4: Touch her if she is OK with it. Establish physical contact to flirt with an attractive woman. Chemistry will be more quickly created if you can break down the barrier of touch. Make the touches a bit innocent and yet still flirty. Steer the conversation into areas that will invite a touch. Again, only do this if the woman is OK with it. If you can feel her giving off a positive vibe, THAT is the time you want to touch her.
Tip 5: Talk about adventures you could have together. Women LOVE excitement, and you need to come across as that type of guy. Don't boast about being fun, just talk about how much enjoyment the two of you might have going somewhere, on an adventure.
Flirting is an art, and the more you practice at it, the better and more effective you will be. Make it subtle and comfortable for the women, but ratchet up the sexual tension to keep her interest.
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